Housewarming Gift Giving and Taking Etiquettes
Giving a housewarming gift is a kind gesture for a loved one. There are different rules of etiquette that can make this a positive experience for both the person who is giving the gift and the one who are receiving it. Heed the following tips.
Timing
You want your gift to come at a good time. You do not want to give it right when they are in the middle of the move and already overwhelmed. If they are having a housewarming party, then you will want to bring a gift then. Otherwise you may want to wait until they get settled. This may also help you determine what they actually need.
Types of gifts
There are many traditional gifts that people choose to give as a housewarming gift. For instance, many people choose to bring a food gift basket or something that is handmade. Of course, there is nothing wrong with getting a unique gift. There are, however, certain gifts that you should not choose unless you are absolutely certain that they want it. One rule is to not get them a big piece of furniture (unless they are definitely looking for such a piece and only then if you know the exact piece that they want). A piece of furniture may seem like the perfect gift for someone who is moving into a new home, however people like to choose these themselves. They have their own style, which is probably not exactly the same as yours. They may not want to clutter up their new home. Even if they seem to have space, they may have their heart set on a different piece, which they just have not bought yet.
The other problem is that they may feel like they have to use your item. Thus even if they do not like it, they may display it, perhaps even for years because they do not want to insult you.
There are also etiquette rules regarding the taking of a housewarming gift. Of course you want to thank the person. Sending a thank you card is also a very nice gesture. When you send the card, you should mention the actual gift. Even if you do not like the gift, you should still send such a card.
If you do not like the gift and the person has included a gift receipt then there is nothing wrong with returning or exchanging it – that is why they gave the receipt. If they gave you something large that you do not like such as a piece of furniture then it is up to you as to whether to use it. You should not feel obligated to be unhappy in your home because they gave an inappropriate gift. Some will use it for a time or put it out when they come to visit so as not to insult them. Do what is right for you.
A housewarming gift is a nice gesture, and being aware of the rules regarding etiquette can make for a better experience for everyone.