How to Discuss Birth Control with new Partner
It can be challenging to discuss birth control with a new partner, however you do not want to avoid the subject to the point that you do not take the proper precautions and end up with an unwanted pregnancy. The following are tips for discussing this sensitive subject.
Make sure that you are ready to be sexually active
You do not want to push someone into something before they are ready. Make sure that your partner is ready to be sexually active first. You should be calm and logical as you discuss this subject. Pick a calm time to talk when no one is rushed.
Bring up the fact that you do not want children with them (at least not yet)
With a new relationship, chances are you feel the same way about a pregnancy. Most do not want to have kids right as they become sexually active in a new relationship. You can discuss the mutual desire that it is not the right time for a pregnancy. Hopefully you will come to an agreement that something must be done in order to prevent it.
Discuss the different options
There are many different options for birth control, from condoms to natural methods to birth control pills and more. Some of these are much more effective than others (although few if any have been shown to have 100% efficacy). They also obviously work in different ways and can affect the action and person differently. Some people may find some uncomfortable, and some can have other affects such as the side effects of birth control pills. You want to make sure that it is something that both of you are comfortable with. You might want to start out with the fact that you want something effective. Trying to time by the stage in the woman’s cycle is obviously not invasive or uncomfortable however it often results in an unwanted pregnancy. Also, some options last for much longer than others, so many people will take that into consideration. You can go over the types that are in contention with your new partner, discussing the advantages and disadvantages of each. Be sure that you each get the chance to say how you feel and that one does not get pushed into a form that they are uncomfortable with. If you feel that you need more information, then you can look up information online from reputable websites as you have your discussion.
Make this an open subject
You want the subject of birth control to be anything but taboo in your new relationship. If your partner wants to discuss it more or change methods, then you should be open to it. With calm and careful deliberation, you can come to a birth control solution that works for both of you.
Updated On: 09/06/2010 Published On: 09/06/2010 Article ViewerClose
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