: How to Alleviate the Problem of Grumpy co Workers
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No one wants grumpy co-workers, however it is not always something that can be avoided. The following are strategies for dealing with the difficulties of such colleagues.
Try to avoid them as much as possible
Sometimes the best way to alleviate this problem is to try to avoid it. You are not always able to avoid certain co-workers, but there are many times that you can. Sit at a different table in the cafeteria. If they start a conversation with you that is not work related then say that you have to go and excuse yourself. Carpool with someone else. Try to work on projects with others. Do not share an elevator. To the best of your ability try to avoid them.
Try to make them less grumpy
As before, this solution is not always possible. Some people are going to be grumpy no matter what you do. Sometimes, however, there are things that you can do in order to help them. One thing might be to do something nice for them. A lot of people are not used to others being kind. It could be something that you say – for instance you can compliment them. Sometimes a compliment can make someone feel good for the entire day. Also you can bring cookies or another treat to the office. People often appreciate that very much. If they need a favor such as if their car won’t start and they need a ride home, then offer to do this for them. You may be amazed at how little gestures can go a long way to making someone feel better.
Talk to them
Sometimes you can help your co-workers by talking to them. If you feel close enough to them, you can ask if there is anything that you can do to help them. They may have a reasonable explanation behind their grumpiness. Of course, asking could make them grumpy, but then you really haven’t lost anything then, have you? Sometimes just showing you care can make a difference. If they ask you about why you inquired, you can even tell them that it seems like they have been on edge lately. Sometimes people do not realize how they are behaving. They may take steps to be less grumpy.
Grumpy co-workers can be difficult to deal with. In extreme cases where you feel like your work is intolerable or your performance is suffering you can go to the boss. Obviously you can also leave a job or try to move to a different department if it is making you that miserable. Otherwise consider the above tips to help you with this problem.
Updated On: 08/03/2010 Published On: 08/03/2010 Article ViewerClose
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