: How to Deal with a Husband who Ignores you during Football Season
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Some men have a mistress, and her name is football season. Wives often take a back burner to this popular sport. There are different ways that a woman can deal with a husband who ignores her during football season, including the following tactics.
Find something to occupy your time
Some women wouldn’t mind if their husband ignores them during football season if they can find something to be just as busy with. There are many things available and you may especially want to look for something to do during the actual game days. You could try some sort of hobby such as photography or writing. You could take a class on something you’ve always wanted such as a new language, a sport, an art, etc. You could also try to join some sort of group such as a writer’s group, a bowling league, etc. You also might want to try to find some friends to go out with. If your husband has some men that he watches football with, then perhaps they have some wives who are feeling similarly neglected. You could see if they want to get together while your husband is busy.
See if you can join your husband
Perhaps you could enjoy football season too. Some women just assume that it is a man’s thing, but many females do enjoy watching and going to games. You can tell him that you would like to join along and hopefully he would be receptive. If you are not familiar with the sport, then you can learn about it, especially focusing on the local team. You can get some football apparel. This sort of sport can be addicting, and you might find that you start enjoying it just as much as him. Instead of time that he spends ignoring you, it might end up turning into quality time that you can spend together.
Talk to him
If you do not want to find something else to do or to try joining him, then you should talk to him. You can tell him about your feelings and maybe you could come up with some sort of compromise. Maybe he doesn’t even realize how much he focuses on it. See if you can come to an understanding so that you do not feel ignored for the season.
If you feel that football season is getting more attention than you, then you might want to take some steps. Consider the above ideas to find a resolution that is right for you.
Updated On: 08/29/2010 Published On: 08/29/2010 Article ViewerClose
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