Tips for Preparing your Child for a Move
A move can be difficult on anyone, but especially so on a child. They may be leaving everything they know, and unlike adults, they will have no control over it. There are different steps that can help prepare your child for such a transition.
Explain why you are moving
You want your child to know that you are not moving to punish him or her, but for valid reasons. Even if your child doesn’t agree with them, it might help them to understand things a little better. They may even gain some understanding of why it is necessary such as if a parent’s job has moved.
Tell them about some exciting things to look forward to
Your child may have an easier time moving if they can learn about some of the positives of their new home. For instance, if they will have a much bigger room at their new home, then talk about that. If there is a giant arcade or water park in the new city, then you can highlight that. Try to make the child understand that there will be a lot of good in the area to which they are moving.
Talk to them about how they are not losing everything about their old lives
They may feel like they are losing every part of their lives, and obviously this is not true. You can tell them that you can decorate their new bedroom in the exact same manner as their old one if that would help them. Also, make sure that they understand that they do not have to give up all of their old friends. You can talk about the ways that they can keep into contact such as visiting (if you are close enough or will be), talking on the phone, writing letters, communicating through the Internet, etc. Also, talk about what is staying exactly the same such as the family.
Listen to them
Part of helping your child prepare to move might just be to let them vent their feelings to you. Give them your time to get out how they are feeling. Show that you care about what they feel. Answer any questions that they may have about the new home. Reassure them about any fears they have such as not making any friends at their new school. You may want to talk to them about moving experiences you have had in the past.
It is difficult for a child to move, and a parent can play a large part in helping prepare their child. The above ideas may be useful to you.
Updated On: 09/12/2010 Published On: 09/12/2010 Article ViewerClose
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