How to help a Child Adjust from Staying Home to Preschool

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Going to preschool for the first time can be a difficult transition for a child. Various strategies can help your child adjust.
Read your child books about going to school
There are many different books with the premise of acclimating a child to school. These are simple and made for this age group. Some of them contain popular children’s characters. If you read your child these books, he or she may relate to them and feel a little better about the process.
There are also television shows along the same lines. Explore which ones may be beneficial for your child.
Talk to your child
It may seem like so recently your child was a baby and you could not really have a conversation with him or her, but now you can. You want to give him or her a chance to vocalize any anxiety or issues they are experiencing with the transition. You can talk about any problems that they may be experiencing.
Show your excitement, not your trepidation
Many parents feel worse about their children going off to preschool than the children feel themselves. Your child may have difficulty adjusting if you act like it is a big, bad thing. Instead show your excitement about it. Talk to them like it is absolutely the best thing that can happen. Talk about how they are now a big boy or girl. This excitement should not stop on the first day of school. When they come home, ask them about their day and what they have learned. Inquire about friends that they have made.
You should be supportive of all that they do in preschool. If the school has functions, then go to them. You can ask if your child wants to make play dates with any friends that are there.
You can also give them things to be excited about. If they do not wear uniforms, then let them pick out nice new outfit to wear to school. Buy them a new backpack. You may want to let them do something normally reserved for older kids such as extending their bedtime by fifteen minutes.
Continue the things that your child enjoys at home
Although things have changed now that your child is in preschool, obviously a lot has not changed. If your child always loved to be read to in the morning but now he or she is going to school, read to them in the afternoon. Try to make sure that you keep with the routines that they loved to do before so that they do not feel like they are losing everything.
Preschool can be a big adjustment, both for your children and for you. The above tips can help you acclimate your child to the change.