What to say to a Guy when on a Date
You may not know what to say to a guy on a date. Unfortunately there is no ready-made script because it will depend on you and your date as well as the likes you each have. Heed the following tips.
Consider light flattery without hero worship
Guys like to be flattered. They like to know that they look good, are funny or have accomplished a lot. Of course, they also generally like ladies who are confident so you do not want to belittle yourself by treating your date like a God on earth. You may want to tell him of your (genuine) admiration for something.
Ask him questions about his interests
A lot of guys love to talk about their interests. It may be sports, cars, politics, his job or another particular hobby of his. When he is telling you about these things, he may enjoy it if you show that you are listening by asking thoughtful questions. It could also help you get to know him better. If you are knowledgeable in these subjects then you can talk about your point of view as well.
Discuss your likes
Many successful relationships are built on common interests, and you may want to find out if he shares yours. You can talk about what you like. You can go into a further in-depth conversation about any subjects that rivet both of you.
If you have experienced anything very interesting or have some good stories to tell, then you can also share this with your date. You can especially talk about anything that showcases your personality or particular hobbies that you have. You can discuss your family and ask about his. You can talk about important parts of your life such as your work.
Consider humor
A lot of guys love a girl who makes them laugh. Of course do not pretend to be a comedienne and have him rolling his eyes at every corny joke in the world, however if you like to be silly and tell jokes, then there is no reason why you cannot include this on your date. You can also tell him funny stories about things that have happened to you, which he may find humorous.
What you say to a guy on a date can influence whether he gets to know the real you. The above tips can help you when deciding what you should discuss.